Stripper Salary: How To Make Him Say Yes

One of the questions I get the most from new dancers is “How do you get almost every guy to say yes?” Although sometimes, like on a busy weekend night when there are more customers than dancers, it’s pretty easy to just walk in and say, “Do you want to dance?” and someone is bound to say yes. Other times it is not so easy. (More often in this economy, right?)

For example, have you ever had a nice conversation with a client and you didn’t know how to ask them to dance? So you let him ramble on about his annoying wife and kids, and all of a sudden you say, “Do you want to dance?” when a new song starts playing… even if it has absolutely nothing to do with the conversation? I did that a lot when I started dancing. And I got used to that awkward silence… and then him saying, “Uhhh… No. Not now.”

The key to getting him to say “YES!” it’s being in control of the conversation and sounding polished when you carry the conversation into your closing lines. If you don’t take the time to build the base conversation, and only move to the closing line, you’ll come off as fake, greedy, and a salesperson.

Here’s the good news, you don’t have to suffer through 4 years of trial and error and lose sales like I did! I’ll teach you how to identify your customer, build your conversations, and most importantly, tie the conversation to the closing line so it flows more naturally. Once you do this, you will hear yes much more often.

Have you ever wondered why you are her “type” sometimes and not other times? One of the first things I teach is how to identify your customer. If you want to become a top earning stripper, you need to be able to spot your clients better. You may have noticed that some customers respond very well to you approaching them and approach them right away, other customers need more personal space. probably won’t get the sale. I can teach you how to size up each customer before you approach them based on their clothing, appearance, body language, and a few other factors very quickly.

Also focus on your persuasive communication strategies and mindset. The way he talks to customers is very different from normal speech. By simply changing your reward structure, you can get your customers to say YES more often. You can start using one of the most powerful skills I teach: Grasps with a nod. Work on writing all your questions as statements that lead to the answer YES. Use it correctly and you will see a tremendous increase in your income very quickly. Remember all questions as statements like “You wouldn’t mind if I sit down, would you?” instead of “Can I sit with you?” These are tools that lead to the answer yes, and yes is the magic word for making sales. “It’s a beautiful day, isn’t it?” “You’re having a fun night so far, aren’t you?” “This is a hot spot tonight, huh?” If you can get your customer to follow the pattern of saying yes, you’ve got them hooked. Close it with this one now… “You’d really like a dance now, wouldn’t you?” If you say “No,” you break the pattern and the momentum.

One more stripper tip: remember to follow up with your clients, “Come back later” could really mean come back later, not just a goodbye. Start planting your seeds when the guys walk through the door, without saying “I want to dance.” Try this: “Hi, I’m [insert YOUR name]welcome to [insert name of your club]go sit down, have fun, I’ll call you later.” This gives you a huge advantage over everyone in the club and he knows your name for later, so make sure you use this to your advantage, it’s a powerful tool