She is addicted to sex – Help! My girlfriend is a sex addict!

In this article we’re going to take a look at a rising phenomenon (no pun intended… 🙂 in today’s social and dating scene: Women who SEEM to be addicted to sex! Sounds like a GOOD thing, right? Well, it is… but ONLY if you share a similar appetite! One of the most amazing revolutions of the last 5 or 7 years has been the sense of incredible freedom and sexual self-expression that many women have begun to exhibit in ways that even the crazy stories of the 1960s can’t compare. Many men find themselves with MUCH MORE than a handful on their hands, and are asking for help and advice on what to do when they can’t keep up! Keep reading… 🙂

The first question you should ask yourself is…

Is it something purely physical or is it an emotional need that you see? Some women (and also men) use sex primarily as a way to feel connected to their partner emotionally. Rejection of sex can feel like being rejected outright! In these cases you have to be VERY careful in what and HOW you say “I have a headache… or I’d rather be watching the World Series… :-)” My best advice is if you FEEL that’s the problem, communicate! Let her know how much you LOVE being intimate, but that you ALSO enjoy doing other things with her, like watching movies, going out to dinner, and whatever else you do together. Sometimes this type of sexual attachment will dissipate if she becomes more confident that the relationship will not end when she opens the bedroom door for herself again.

Find out what your fantasies are… and chase them!

If she constantly wants to have sex, even AFTER most normal couples are fast asleep, ask her what her fantasies are. Know? Maybe she is very aggressive in bed, but she is really BAD at communicating what she really wants sexually and intimacy wise. Sometimes finding out what REALLY turns her on is a GREAT way to increase the enjoyment for both of you and, at the same time, release some of that unrequited release that she may NOT have had before.

Finally, thank GOD, you have a girl who likes you as much as she does…and LOVES to show it! You are a lucky man indeed!