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Why do narcissistic mothers hate their daughters?

Living in a house where your mother is a narcissist is never easy to admit. They hide under someone else’s facade. They affirm someone better, a successful father to the outside world. But the real drama and abuse happens behind closed doors.

Abused teen suffers from emotional pain, shame, disrespect where they feel unworthy and guilty for who they are. They have no right to shine and grow with dignity as independent human beings.

It is especially visible when a girl is entering the stage of puberty. That is why the narcissistic mother treats her daughter in a more cruel way than her son. So, she becomes very jealous, possessive and abusive. She treats her like an extension of herself.

Why? He realizes that he is getting older! He realizes that he missed out on great opportunities in life, great relationships, and deals with his own past abuse. Her daughter reminds him of the painful truth about her own life. She is a threat to her and blames her for sacrificing her life to be a housewife.

That is why jealousy is coming to the surface. He must take every opportunity to unload all his pent-up anger on her. She finds a temporary release from her low self-esteem and her feelings of failure.

Through her abuse, she damages her daughter’s self-esteem and self-worth. That is why she is unable to develop her full potential and happiness. The hidden message for her is that “you have no right to be happy, free, beautiful and successful.”

She experiences his harsh criticism, manipulation, shame and humiliation in her female body parts. She creates more havoc and more doubt in her young mind. She is loaded with toxic and limiting beliefs and negative emotions.

After so much abuse, her daughter gives up and accepts who she thinks she has become. The narcissistic mother feels liberated and much better about herself. Her growing son is not a threat to her right now until her next emotional threat comes along. Then the cycle of abuse will take place again.

No one can accept that kind of treatment. A young daughter feels angry and may rebel. The narcissistic mother hates disagreement and opposition, so she will fight to punish her. In her mind, she belongs to her.

What can we do about it? This is a very difficult question when the adolescent is still living with a narcissistic mother.

Many years later, she is ready to face the truth and come to terms with a demonic past with a mother who still mistreats her. It is never easy to say ‘NO’ to stop adult abuse. So the no contact decision is life changing.

It is possible to break free from narcissistic abuse. You need to acknowledge the past and address negative and toxic beliefs and memories. When you do that, it is possible to disconnect and remove traumatic memories and feelings from your mind. Then the essential life force energy will return to your body and make it free and resilient at will.

Unfortunately, the narcissistic mother never changes. She gets older, the mental disorders get stronger and she is more toxic to the people she lives with.

Fixing this person is never an option as he will never succeed. Remember: you will never fix a narcissistic mother but you can save your life.

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