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How to turn your bedroom into a haven of love

Sex is crucial in an intimate relationship. Too often, though, the hustle and bustle of life gets the better of you, and before you know it, your intimate sessions end up being a quick romp under the covers with the lights off. Sounds familiar?

Take advantage of occasions like wedding anniversaries, Valentine’s Day and birthdays to bring back the spark. According to sexologist Aleida Heinz, for your sexual experience to be enhanced you need to stimulate most or all of the 5 senses and turning your bedroom into a haven of love with this in mind can make that special occasion or the most special.

#1 View: “Men are visual” is a cliché but very true. In addition to turning him on as soon as he walks through the bedroom door, lingerie will make you feel sexy and confident. Put on that new piece of lingerie and you’ll be looking forward to the next anniversary. We no longer have an excuse because lingerie comes in all sizes and designs.

Red has often been referred to as the color of love and understandably so. In color psychology, red is the most emotionally intense color; stimulates faster heart rate and breathing, which are physiological responses associated with making love. However, too much red in your bedroom would make it difficult for your heart rate to return to normal after sex and could cause disturbances in your sleep pattern.

For this reason, it’s best to opt for lighter shades or blends of red like pink and peach, and use solid red as an accent color on one of the bedroom walls, curtains, or part of the bedding.

#2 Scent: Use her favorite scent in your body lotion or perfume. You can buy him a body wash with your favorite scent and encourage him to use it at night before bed. I still remember the cologne my husband was wearing when we met and yes, every time I smell it on him today I feel nostalgic. Light scented candles in the room, but remember to place them away from the bed and the curtains to avoid accidents.

Touch #3: Many of us believe that silk bedding is the best when it comes to making love. The feeling of silk brushing against the skin is enchanting. However, silk is expensive and more difficult to maintain than regular sheets. You can opt for those that have the highest quality of threads, such as pure cotton.

#4 Taste: Strategically place aphrodisiac foods like chocolates, bananas, apples, marshmallows, and wine around the room and feed each other before, during, and even after sex. The best types of food are those that can be eaten with your hands. In this way the physical connection is maintained all the time. Chocolate fondue can be poured over their bodies and they can feast if that’s their cup of tea. It’s fun and messy, but you have to consider the repercussions of food on your bedding.

#5 Sound: Play soft music to serenade you in your bedroom. Keeping televisions out of the bedroom is recommended, but if you have one, put on a steamy show or love guide to set the mood. The choice of music will depend on what you both like, but I think no one can go wrong with some rhythm and blues.

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