How to tell a friend that you like him without ruining the friendship! do it this way

Falling romantically in love with a friend is something that happens most of the time. It can be maddeningly exciting or a nightmare. Trust me, because I know what it feels like. When you have been very good friends with each other for a long time and suddenly, just like that, you realize that you are always thinking about him, feeling awkward and acting weird when he is around, you will know that things have changed.

So what happened and what changed? Your feelings, stupid! You are falling in love with the boy and you don’t know what to do. More than anything, you are afraid that he will not return your feelings. Things will not be easy for you, my friend. Act sensibly and hopefully you will find that he feels the same way about you.

However, don’t rely on luck alone, if your friend has always treated you like another one of his casual friends and has no idea how you feel; you are in a difficult moment. You can let him know right away and risk your friendship or worse, he will be horrified because he had no idea and considers you a sister. Yuck! Now that can be really painful. So this is what you do. Take it easy and don’t rush or you will spoil the whole plan. These are my tactics and they have worked for me. Others may have different ways of doing it.

• Never tell your friend right away that you have feelings for him because if he doesn’t think of you that way, it will come as a shock to him and he may start to avoid you. Once you have burned your ship there is nothing you can do.

• Be a true friend to him. Listen when he talks; even if it’s other girls. Laugh with him when he’s happy and show your concern when he’s in trouble.

• Be the first to offer help when you need it. Show him how concerned you are and let him know that you will support him no matter what.

• Look attractive when you are with him. Let him see you in a different light; as a desirable woman and not as a gang member.

• Surprise him with intelligent conversation and learn about his interests in life (even if it’s boring).

• Be prepared to accompany him to a soccer game or car show, even if you’d rather be in a movie, alone with him. Never scold him.

• In short, be indispensable to him.

• When you have it eating from your hand, it begins to act in an elusive and mysterious way. If you’ve been calling, don’t call; wait for me to call you. Whenever he wants you to go somewhere with him, tell him you have an appointment, but don’t tell him who. Let him wonder.

When you get to this stage, he will definitely sense your absence and worry that he has been taking you for granted. He will start to wonder if you have found a boyfriend or if you are slowly drifting away from him. That will scare the hell out of him and make him come running to you to tell you that he can’t do without you. Trust me, it works, every time.